Racist wasn't even the right appelation anyway. She should have called me homophobic, if anything. However, even that's not entirely accurate as "phobic" connotes hate and fear and I neither hate nor fear queers.
This is a point I have been trying to make for some time, the word "racist" has been so misused that it has become meaningless.
If I believe someone is exhibiting racial bigotry on this forum I would be appalled and I would have no hesitation reporting the post, in this instance however there was no hint of any racial bigotry.